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  • I have asked people about my mbti type according to functions, each one of them pointing me into a different direction. Help appreciated : MbtiTypeMe

     Deborah updated 1 year, 10 months ago 1 Member · 1 Post
  • Deborah

    December 9, 2020 at 3:55 pm

    A bit of context before I start: I have asked for help before, to discord friends and some on hq, most of them give me a different answer, this only made me more curious, because I want clear answers and im going for another opinion today.

  • How old are you? What’s your gender? Give us a general description of yourself.

  • Im a 14 yr old (15 in feb) and I am a male, I would describe myself as a very lazy person, I just can’t push myself to do things, not because I have fear of not succeeding, but because long tasks are tedious for me, like REALLY tedious, apart from being lazy ppl have told me that im a friendly, cool person. (and I am in school for my bachelors/undergrad in science.

  • Is there a medical diagnosis that impact your mental/comportamental stability somehow?

  • uhhhh I suspect I have adhd, I was going to test for it but the psychiatrist just disappeared the day I was going to get my results. So for now no clue, maybe ADHD.

  • Describe your upbringing. Did it have any kind of religious or structured influence? How did you respond to it?

  • So(I don’t have memory of this but a family member told me this) when I was smaller(like 2) my dad didn’t even put time into raising me, my mom left me with him for a few minutes, and by the 5 minute mark he wasn’t watching me anymore, he would be playing playstation or something that doesn’t have to do with watching over me. My only real “male figures” were my stepdad and my uncle. Apart from that, no I didnt have anything religious or structured.

  • What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not?

  • I want to get into either culinary school or start my own business, I just like cooking and for the Business part is that I can be successful and I think I would be good in it.

  • If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

  • Lonely and tired.

  • What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage i?

  • Im not THAT into sports, but I like running, thats about it. I like hiking, running and sometimes marathons, I like marathons because it incorporates the two things I like: running and competing.If im not doing that im probably talking to friends or playing video games

  • How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about – is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?

  • I would consider myself very curious, I wonder about a lot of things, my curiosities are about how the future could look like, specifically MY future, but also others futures. And yes, I have more ideas than I can execute, most of them I don’t execute at all. Furthermore my ideas are more conceptual? because I wonder about my future and what job opportunities I have.

  • Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

  • I wouldn’t be upfront about it, I wont fight for the leadership position, but if I HAD to do it then i’ll do it, I would be better than average with the position because I know how to communicate with my team and my “Style” would be discussing the various topics on a call and choosing the best thing as a group, I keep everyone on check and I keep communication clear.

  • Are you coordinated? Why do you feel as if you are or are not? Do you enjoy working with your hands in some form? Describe your activity?

  • Being 100% honest, I like cooking, I like cutting stuff and I like typing and playing games, all of those use hand-eye coordination and I play a bit of dodgeball in my school so I could say that im pretty coordinated. But like hard work like changing a tire is a no go for me.

  • Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.

    • I wouldn’t consider myself artistic, but I can enjoy some kinds of art, I can enjoy cartoon/anime-like art, I can also enjoy like scenario art, with the environment on it and it just feels soothing to look at. Otherwise no.

  • What’s your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

  • I can learn from the past, for my actions on the present to better my future. I cherish my past experiences a lot, and I wouldn’t trade them for anything(and im pretty happy with the decisions I made in the past)

  • How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

  • If they ask me help for something I know how to do, i’ll just explain how to do it and let them do it by themselves, so they can learn faster. If I don’t know how to do smth I don’t know how to do, I would look it up on google and help them do it so I can learn too.

  • Do you need logical consistency in your life?

  • I don’t NEED it, but I appreciate logical consistency in my life, I appreciate it very much.

  • How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

  • About being productive about myself, I don’t care a lot. But when im leading a team, I care about efficiency a lot because I don’t want to drag down others with me so I try my best to be efficient with my work and others work.

  • What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

  • I like playing games and hanging out with my friends, a bit of learning about things about the world on the side. I like playing games because it just energizes me and it gives me and my friends a way to play with each other in distance, it also helps my mood and just distracts me. About the learning part I like it because I see it as “useful”, learning about things that I can use to get me out of sticky situations or just learning them for the sake of learning.

  • How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

  • I WANT to strategize it, like when I go out and I ask my mom at what time we will go out, she tells me “I dont know” and that gets me mad because I can’t plan it out and so I dont, altough I wouldn’t plan it out like to the last number, I would do a small rough plan like: “Oh we will go here and then here and then here, so we will go out at x time and have enough time for x thing”

  • What’s important to you and why?

  • Friends and family, and having fun, because I fear being left behind, I fear that no one will ever want me/love me, and having fun is important to me because I don’t want to be one of those miserable 40yr olds in their midlife crisis that regret their decisions.

  • What are your aspirations?

  • My aspirations are starting a happy family and be economically successful and being happy (I know its a lot to ask for)

  • What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

  • As I said before, being left behind is one of my only fears, I fear that no one will ever want me or love me and thinking of that unsettles me a lot.

  • What do the “highs” in your life look like?

  • When im out with my friends, doing stuff and getting work done, being happy with friends.

  • What do the “lows” in your life look like?

  • Being unmotivated, lonely and just tired without seeing my friends for a long time(quarantine)

  • How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what’s around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

  • Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

  • About things I could do when I go outside, or about past decisions I could’ve made better or if not about how my future could look like.

  • How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you’ve made it?

  • I dont take that long for important decisions, but I do take my time thinking if this is the best choice. And when I make it I change my mind, but I figure out I made the best decision at the moment and just accept it.

  • How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

  • Emotions are fairly important to me, I want to feel loved and I want to love people, there are times where I enter this sudden rage and I dump everything aside, but thats beside the point. Emotions are big in my life and I appreciate them a lot.

  • Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

  • If I have a opinion around people I trust i’ll throw it out there, if im with people I don’t know I try to not cause a ruckus because I don’t want to give a bad false impression.

  • Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

  • If authority is stupid it should be challenged, if its unfair it should be challenged and I break rules pretty often, I see them as a box or shackles, I do it to prove my point that rule is stupid.

  • What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

  • A loving, caring family, being economically stable and being happy. Thats what I strive for. I suppose fame too but thats really low on the list

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